Stefan I know what you are saying as we have at least a dozen or so accidents every year due to the carelessness of loaded weapons around the house. We (wife and I) took an oath together that we would share our knowledge with our kids and get them through the safety programs necessary to arm and shoot firemarms safely.
the real problem I have seen repeatedly is the arms loaded sitting on a rifle rack somewhere accessible in the house to the children. And if the parents aren't wise enough to initiate some sort of responsiblibty then let the axe fall.....

two cents E