Gentlemen :
Welcome to the WW 2 forums !
Can't say whom you are looking for but if you are not particular you both could try this web-site dedicated to the US heavybomber formations. many, many former vets respond to the Message boards with very useful information. I am on their e-mail-chat list for the past 3 years and it has been a wealth of information. you both may get lucky and find a vet(s) from your respective home towns......
www.heavybombers.com
look for the message boards and take your time going through the very large site. Suggest possibly checking the personal bomb groups and e-mail the individual bomb group representatives.
Web-master Scott is very helpful.
viele Glück !
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