Something stupid

All my friends stoped and passed their judgement on how they saw hey, they all hated her for what she is doing, i accepted my friends judgment as their own but i am not one to judge so quickly. one of my best friends is a Bronie (yes a Bronie and his favourite one is Rainbow Dash), but when he told me i did not judge him for that fact, i accepted him because it is somehting he enjoys doing and being friends with a massive My little Pony fan who writes fan fiction makes and imations and collects anything to do with my little pony is quite interesting.

but there is also a back story to this Bronie, he has a forum called Sitngrays Rotorcraft Forum [Stingray's Rotorcraft Forum] i was banned from this forum a while back because i did stupid things and i hated Him for baning me i passed my judgement too quickly and too harshly. but afterward he sought me out to allow me a second chance now we trust eachother like brothers. He has troubles with some of his research and instead of going to one of his more senior members who have a wider knowledge base he chose to come to me and i managed to pull of a major clue in one of his research investigations that had been running for 6 years and after that clue he was flooded with information about a Mil Mi 24 variant built by Polyot industries in Russia.

But what i am trying to say is that i will not pass judgement on this girl untill the dust has settled and right now the dust is as thick as ever.

 

Dude, know how you feel. My first wife ran off with a guy in her squadron, they'd been sneaking around right under my nose for a while, I was just too trusting to let myself believe it. So, yeah, I know how you feel. But I gotta say, FormerJughead nailed it. It hurts like hell right now, but once you put it behind you, you will find out that she's not the only one in the world, and if she did something that all your friends are hating her for, then she's definitely not the best choice for a long-term commitment, regardless of how you decide to feel about her right now. You need someone who's going to be with you (standing beside you, supporting you, laughing and crying right there along with you) for the long haul. Those are a bit harder to find, sometimes, but they're WELL worth the wait. It took me about 3 years before I met my current wife, we've been together for 8+ years now and have a wonderful (heh...mostly...3-year-olds can be a handful) daughter together. Give yourself some time to heal, and don't try to rush things...I did, the first time around, and trust me, waiting for the perfect moment/person is well worth it.

 

And the drama-queen award of the week goes to...

~A

 

God bless you for saving yourself.....it may be there is a better pot of gold somewhere at the end of a rainbow you cannot yet see, and maybe it is because someone has a need greater than you that you may ultimately be the soul that provides the key that provides the solution. We are usually here for a reason and few of us always get to know what it is before the last days go by. With me, sometimes it is the depth of my suffering that opened up some compassion for someone I was yet to meet. Happiness and satisfaction is born of those things and I am one I would rate as dense when it comes to learning life's lessons.

 

Indeed

 

Want to join the Foreign Legion ?

 

There's always a silver lining. Sometimes I worry about getting older.

And then, along comes this thread........

 

I was going to argue the point above, until I re-read the crucial "against his better judgment" part and then I had to agree. Because of all of the asinine things I've ever seen men do, the really stupid things have been things their "better judgment" told them it would be okay to do - and not a woman. (Present company excluded, I am sure.)

 

Gunney: Guessing y'all are a young 'un- because of the way you expressed the title of the thread. ...Young 'uns tend to go nuclear on any personal subject that is close to the heart. Realize you are over reacting to affairs of the heart. ..I'll guess y'all have been drinking as well. Bad decisions are made regarding romance when booze is involved.. Take a few days, stay sober, then make a rational decision....Get right, fellow rogue.

 

There is no shame in losing a woman. It is like passing a kidney stone, it hurtsfor a while but what a relief when it is gone. The character of Jack Malloy, TV program UNHAPPILY EVER AFTER

 

Well first things first i'm 15 and i dont drink so there is no booze involved

But in my honest opinion I would and i could kill my self out of love. She hates my guts but I still continue to love her and just about nothing will sway my judgement.

It seems like you guys all lead happy lives with wonderful wifes and kids but not once have i had anyone to share my love with, there were times where it came close but ended in disaster.


My parents split up when I was 3 years old and i had no idea why or what the reason was for them splitting up then about 7 years later i found out that i was the sole reason why my parents split up and that caused my heart to break like nothing else, that day when i found out i almost chocked to death a kid who bullied me for 5 years straight because i was so angry and sad. Now 5 years later this has happened, if I had not learnt what i did 5 years ago i would not be in the state i am now.

And trust me when i say this, I HATE MY LIFE

 

Gunney listen to me young man....

Talk about problems !! If you spoke with me for less than an hour you would be trying to get me help !!

I'm not going to tell you there is a miracle cure for bad things in life because there's no such thing, that's the reason it's called life !!

All of us here could write a book about good or bad decisions in our lives. Most of them we can now laugh at. The true beauty of life is as you get older you gain knowledge. Causes or reasons that are important to you at 15 just ain't going to amount to much when you're 56. Trust me on that.

Going through what you are going through now will make you a better husband, a better father and a better person when you're 56 because
you'll have the knowledge. Just make sure to pass yours to your kids.

Best Regards

 

Snap out of it man! Consider what the men of WW2 had to do/put up with...

 

Hell Poppy you should of seen my ex wife !!

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Gunny, dude, been there done that. Again. I've been at a low points (note the plural) in my life where I really didn't care whether I lived or died...and that was even without a female of the species involved. I've been there after my first wife left. Married now for 8 years....guess what....life IS NOT LIKE THE MOVIES OR ON TV!!!!! Its not all "Leave it to Beaver" episodes where problems are solved in the last five minutes and everybody goes home smiling and laughing. Dude, marriage is HARD WORK. You have to be willing to put a lot of work in, and expect that there will be rough times. Most folks tend to leave those rough spots at home, 'cuz no matter how many times someone asks you how your day is going, generally they're just being polite and really don't want to hear about the fight you had last night, etc....so you put a happy generic face on things and go about your business. Even with the right woman, its still a tough job. But with the right woman, its worth it. And you'll know when she's the right one, because she will feel the exact same about you. This girl left you, my guess would be for someone else. Happens to every teenager out there (first girl I dated dropped me like a hot brick to date a friend of mine on the track/cross-country team...after our first date. They're now happily married with two kids.). You're not the first, and definitely won't be the last. It hurts, yeah...but you'll get over it. Like Steve Schaeg said, its our experiences now (and decisions...good and bad) that make us who we become. This is your chance to grow a thicker skin (the trick is not to wall yourself off...again, BTDT), a bigger set of balls, and mature.

 

15 years old and you hate your life?! Oh for crying out loud christ and all the starving orphans! at 15 you have not even began to suffer. Suck it up and press on. There are a lot of people who have spent a lot of time and money learning how to help you through this teenage crisis. Seek them out and listen, that's what they are there for. A trip to your school's guidence counselor is a good first step. Be open and honest and they will help you figure your stuff out. Because at the end of the day as neat as girls are, and believe me you have only scratched the surface of their neatness, they are only girls and there are a lot of them; most won't crap on you either.